Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Idiocracy!

I watched this movie 'Idiocracy' a 2006 Hollywood movie some days ago. The movie is stupid. Literally. But that's what its meant to be. From a movie stand-point not very interesting, and no surprise if it bombed at the box office. However, the movie stirred some thoughts in my mind.

I am a strong believer in genetics. We know for a fact that certain traits, talents, personality types, phobias, manias, intelligence and stupidity are all carried in the genes, from parents to children. The movie takes this basic fact and builds the story from there. What they show in the movie, the seed of which is starting in the US, in five centuries the whole of US will be dominated by stupid people and intelligence will be long gone. India is well on its way to this prediction. 

Couples in higher income groups, with higher education, better jobs, higher IQ are not having children. They either don't want any children or are delaying it to the point where nature may not support them anymore. On the other hand, couples in the lower income groups, when I say lower income here, I am referring to below poverty line, are having children till their women can bear them. 

The ratio of children with higher IQ is seriously dwindling as compared to lower IQ children. For a society, or country to run efficiently there has to be a balance of individuals, with whatever special skill sets they can offer. Even if everyone becomes a scholar then who would do the hard labour, or if no one is a scholar then who would lead/guide/manage/organize the labour.

Just imagine, for each couple who can provide better education, better medical facilities, better lifestyle to their children who are not having kids: there are many couples who are having 4 kids each on an average. I believe if things continue the way they are, in another few decades the ratio of intelligent people in India versus the lower IQ will seriously dwindle. 

Infact to think from another point of view, the situation in India doesn't purely depend on the genetics issue (though its a major influence), it is also influenced by the lack of administration in terms of providing education opportunities and awareness to the public with limited means.  Or maybe its a concoction of low IQ genes with lack of opportunities or will.

It scares me to think that people with low or no education will largely outnumber those with higher intelligence and proper education. And not to forget the issue of 'brain drain' that India faces. 

Adding that to the situation of the quality of population that is increasing, I wonder where our country will head in the future. 

Note: I do not support the Indian caste system, neither does this blog refer to India's caste system in any way. This is a note purely on what I feel about genetics and how it will influence the ratio of India's growing population. Although the ancient Indian system of caste was largely based on genetics, I strongly believe it does not apply anymore. My thoughts on that are reserved for another time.

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Ego Trip!

Its amazing isn't it, that people with low or no credibility go on the longest and most expensive ego trips. I have had such several incidents around me recently where such individuals have amazed me, actually beyond amazed me. The recent one takes the cake.

So there is this gentlemen who has close to no knowledge of the subject in question and like one of those baffling unexplainable occurrences of the universe, has a rather commanding position without supervision. This individual goes on ego trips on an hourly basis, wanting people to 'recognize' his 'position'. Dude! If you are really worth the position or authority you command, you dont need to throw yourself around. Your knowledge, authority will command itself. But then, when you dont have it, you have to force people to think you do. And what best way to do it rather than go on a long and expensive ego trip.

Like they say in a Hindi Proverb 'Adh jal gagri chalkat jaye' literally meaning 'a half filled pot of water, splashes and spills the most'. Enough said!

Friday, April 19, 2013

How safe are we?

A friend pointed out that we should not blame the law enforcement and the law makers for not doing their jobs. However I feel that they have failed miserably, and are to be blamed for the sorry state of safety for citizens. The whole objective here is to instill fear in perpetrators, so that they think a thousand times before harming anyone. The fact that there is no fear of punishment, crimes are being done fearlessly! 

Our police force hasn't been sensitized towards sexual crimes; sexual crimes against children or women or men for that matter. They just don't know how to handle the victims or the families. The latest case is a live example of how casually such matters are handled and how they would rather push it under the carpet with no public attention to such a case. There is no SOP for tackling rape victims and even if there is one, it is not enforced within the police force. The wounds that such a crime inflicts on the victims are only deepened by the same people who are supposed to protect us. 

Ofourse one's safety is in one's hand yet, what is the police force for? How do we make sure our children are safe, they cant take care of themselves. How do criminals understand that they just cant go around harming children. There is no separate law in the country against pedophiles. They should be butchered, stoned, hanged. There just isnt any forgiveness for violating children. Its a sickness of mind, which can only be treated with stopping such a mind from existing.
 
I am constantly on guard for my kid. I am scared as a parent. He goes to school, I am scared every moment when he isn't with me. I don't trust anyone with him. But that shouldn't be the case right. We should be able to enjoy our children's childhood. We should feel protected. We should feel safe.  
 

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Stree 2012 5th Annual All India Women Artist Art Exhibition



'Stree-12' is the 5th Annual All India Women Artist Art Exhibition organized by Bhiku Ram Jain Foundation & Art Mall. The art exhibition will be inaugurated by some noted senior eminent artists, art critics, art historians and other celebrities, as has been done in previous years. Art works of  women artists from  all over India will be on display and sale till 20th March 12. In this art exhibition, artists will have an interaction with eminent artists which would develop a better and long term relations to benefit all. Art Mall and the Foundation are working endlessly for the benefaction of the upcoming artists in India and are providing them an unparallel platform to display their art works on a regular basis in the gallery. On this event an annual art catalogue having work images of the participating women artists will also be released on the same day.

Time : 10th March : 6:00 pm - Opening
11th to 20th March : 11:00 am - 8:00 pm - Exhibition on View

Entry : Free

Place : Art Mall, 5, Shivaji Marg, Moti Nagar, N. G. Road, New Delhi - 15
Website : http://www.artmallonline.com/  | Nearest Metro Station(Green Line) - 'Satguru Ramsingh Marg' &'Ashok Park'


One of my paintings will also be displayed at the exhibition. So if you guys are in Delhi then please visit.

Cheers!!

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Money Management

'Money Management' 'Household Budget' 'Expenses' 'Bills' 'Savings'... all these terms are troubling for me. I am not really the very 'spend your money carefully' kind of person. Until now, I and my husband would spend more and save almost nothing. It was just the two of us. We had already bought our house and that was the biggest saving that we did. Pretty much satisfied with it. I mean, who buys a house at 26 and that too in Bombay. How we bought it, makes a good story for another blog post, so more on that later.


But now that I am a mother, I have an added sense of responsibility . I have to save for my child, to make sure he gets a secured future. 


So to keep a track of our expenses and make sure we save something at the end of the month after investing, I came up with this excel sheet tracker. I intend to update it every week, so that would be about 4to5 times a month, which I think is fair. This will make my life so much easier.


The intention of making this tracker is not only to track the expense but to identify any 'unnecessary' spend and try to curb it the next time.


So here is the tracker for you all. Use it if it suits your lifestyle, amend it. Also, if you have any suggestions for changes or additions, please let me know.

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AjfGqaNj_aLddDh0X0NOMWlMLXlwcUM4RFVaTnA4X1E#gid=0

Please note: there are four categories where we could specify the expense weekly as you scroll down and i have added a formula where the weekly expense will be added in the main table.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Perception

I have received the below mail many a times before as well, however, every time it makes me think. Are we really missing out on the beauty around us. The small moments that make life and fill us with Joy. 


Today we are being bombarded by Brands and Media (I am a victim myself), have we stopped realizing and paying attention to whats available at no cost around. Things to ponder...








Perception

THE SITUATION


In Washington , DC , at a Metro Station, on a cold January morning in 2007, this man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2,000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After about 3 minutes, a middle-aged man noticed that there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds, and then he hurried on to meet his schedule.


About 4 minutes later
:



The violinist received his first dollar. A woman threw money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.


At 6 minutes:



A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.


At 10 minutes:

 A 3-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head the whole time. This action was repeated by several other children, but every parent - without exception - forced their children to move on quickly.


At 45 minutes:



The musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.

After 1 hour:


He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed and no one applauded. There was no recognition at all.


No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold-out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100 each to sit and listen to him play the same music.

This is a true story. Joshua Bell, playing incognito in the D.C. Metro Station, was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities.

This experiment raised several questions:


*
In a common-place environment, at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty?

*
If so, do we stop to appreciate it?

*
Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?


One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:


If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made . . ..


How many other things are we missing as we rush through life?


Thursday, September 22, 2011

Akanksha Come Alive 2011

I will conduct a 2 hour art workshop with all the participants for Art. Below are the details of the event. Please join us and Come Alive!!!




Dear all,
It’s that time of the year when you can do the one thing you always wanted to do but never found the time, when you can connect with people you never thought you will meet, when you can set yourself free from the inhibitions you might have… It’s time to ‘Come Alive’ with Akanksha again!
The Akanksha Foundation invites you to kick start the ‘Joy of Giving Week’ with the annual event on Sunday, the 2nd of October 2011.
For details and to sign up please refer to the attached document.
Looking forward to hearing from all of you.
Thanks and Regards,
Mansi Shah
Manager – Social Leadership Programme
The Akanksha Foundation
Website – www.akanksha.org